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Thoughts During Quarantine

I wanted to put some thoughts down about this time of pandemic, quarantine, isolation and more. I've lived alone for many years, and used to work from home as well. I sometimes felt lonely, but would visit with family, friends, and just walk around the stores and get a feeling of being connected. Of course, working in a large building full of people kept me feeling very normal! However, the main thing I've learned during this isolation is that relationships are everything. It's been nice seeing family and friends through Zoom or FaceTime, communicate through text, phone or messaging, but it's not the same. For me, those are momentary fixes until I can see and feel the person - a hug, a laugh together, a meal together, a movie, something where we're together. And not having that all these weeks has made me realize how much I truly want a life partner, a mate, someone I could be with during the hard times or boring times or sad times. Everyone I know, in family and friends, are coupled or in families, so during this time they've at least had each other. Not me, not even a pet nowadays. And even though I'm used to it, much more than some people, it's been really hard and somewhat depressing.

So I'd like my profile to reflect this. Nothing much has changed except I'm more dedicated to the idea of meeting, getting to know, and hopefully coming to love a man in a true love relationship. If we marry, that's great. For now, I just want that connection. I'm not perfect in any way, but I suspect you aren't either. Maybe we can overlook the flaws and the faults and find true friendship, respect, love and togetherness for the rest of our lives. We don't know how long we have, so I'd much rather make these last days/weeks/years more fun, meaningful, loving and probably what God intended all along. Thanks for listening - if this resonates with you please get in touch. Stay well.

I'm self employed but also work a regular job, enjoy my work and my family and friends, but am missing that best friend/companion/Mr. Right to make it complete. Would love to meet a great guy to have fun together, hopefully leading to something long term. Please live within a 50 miles radius of Syracuse NY, non-smoker, social drinker, no drama. Please note if you live farther than 50 miles from Syracuse NY I will not respond to your messages.

Like to cook and bake for someone, hold hands, just enjoy the little things together - going for a random road trip, floating in my pool, walking by Onondaga Lake, finding a boat ride somewhere...or shooting pool, playing cards, watching tv or a movie.

I'm a Christian, and would love to have a partner that feels the same way, going to church, etc.

I am a "BBW", if that's a problem you'll have to move on...but if you like a nice, soft, huggable lady who is affectionate, fun loving, loyal and honest, maybe we should chat!

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageWelsh
BuildBBW/BHM
Height170 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionDiabetes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyOther
Job TitleConsumer Loan Officer

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Instructional, Movies
Favorite TV showsCooking, history, documentaries, disaster movies
Favorite movies typesComedy, Romance, Documentary
Favorite moviesDisasters like earthquakes, floods, realistic not fantasy
Music typesPop, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Soul
Reading selectionBiography, Fiction, History, Humor, Instructional, Philosophy, Religious
Idea of funCards and games, pool, travel, my swimming pool, cookout, painting
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, TV, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Playing cards, Volunteering, Computers, Shopping

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, Going to a casino, Playing video games, TV
Always wanted to tryHang gliding, jet skis

Views

ReligionChristian
Goal in lifeTo be happy

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Money, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerHumor, intelligence, laid back, generous, reliable, responsible, empathetic
On the first dateGo for coffee or wine, shoot pool, go for a walk by Onondaga lake in nice weather