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SSBBW Looking for someone special.

Hello my name is Melanie. I am a young widow, looking for someone to spend time with. I love music and to sing. I don’t know how good I am, but I do it anyway. I enjoy cooking and I’m good at it. If you want it I can make it. I am looking for someone in the Williamsport or surrounding area. I have a lot to give I just need someone to give it too. You can find me on Facebook Rutan. If you’re looking for a good woman who will treat you right then give me a chance. I do have arthritis in my knees, but I still get around ok, I am a super sized big beautiful woman, and all I want is someone who would like the chance to get to know me.

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Christian Preferences

My denomination is:Methodist
Attends churchOn Holidays or Special Occassions


Cat breedSweetpea is a domestic short hair and my boys are Maine Coons.

Living as a widow/widower

Widow/Widower forOver a year
Was married forOver 20 years
Date must be widowedIt's an advantage, but not a must


EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height163 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionDisabled
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Employment StatusRetired

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDramas, Situation comedies, Movies
Favorite TV showsOutlander, Greys Anatomy, Black List
Favorite movies typesAction, Comedy, Romance, Drama
Favorite moviesTo many to mention
Music typesCountry, Rock
Favorite artistsGrateful Dead, Led Zepplin, Rush, Bad Company, Yes, The Who, Steve Miller, Staind, Theory of a Deadman
Reading selectionFiction, History, Humor, I'm an author
Favorite booksMy own, of course. I have had 2 romance novels published. You can find them on Amazon. Just look for A Love that lasts. I am currently working on something a little more Erotic right now.
Idea of funDinner and a movie, whether it be out or at home. Or going out and and seeing a band play and having a few drinks.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Cooking, Cars, Playing cards, Computers


SmokerQuitting smoking
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
Sense of humorGoofy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert
Always wanted to tryA sleigh ride in the snow.


Political viewsI don't like politics
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeFind a good hearted man who wants to be loved and show him just how good life can be.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerGood sense of humor, kindness, facial hair is a plus and big hands.
On the first dateWould like to have a quiet dinner where we could talk and get to know each other.